2018年4月22日（星期日）
Equanimity
The fourth element of true love is equanimity. We can also call it inclusiveness or nondiscrimination. In a deep relationship, there's no longer a boundary between you and the other person. You are her and she is you. Your suffering is her suffering. Your understanding of your own suffering help your loved one to suffer less. Suffering and happiness are no longer individual matters. What happens to you happens to your loved one.
舍
真爱的第三个元素是舍，或者可以说完全的包容、没有歧视。人与人之间没有隔阂，我的痛苦也是她的痛苦。当我真正去了解我的苦时，同时也能够减轻所爱的人的苦。痛苦与快乐不是纯属个人的课题。在你身上发生的也会在你所爱的人同样发生。
("How To Love", Thich Nhat Hanh, pg21)
🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 to my dearest papa
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